Okay, so this is just something that kind of bothers me (and it was something I have thought for a while, and is not something I am writing because someone else noticed it also)
Have you noticed that just writing a little thing like 'I thank my friends', and then listing names, can be so offensive? Someone always feels so left out, like a kicked puppy or something. Then you feel bad for not naming them even though they are indeed your friend. But then you realize that if you did list the names of every friend you ever had your list would go on forever because there is ALWAYS that one person that slipped your mind!
You know what I mean, right? its not like you are saying: "Ha! Take that all you unlisted people! This is the final straw on your demise as my friend! *insert evil laughter and proceed petting a cat*" Seriously, there just is not room for it.
Consider this, if you have acknowledgments for a book, and you can only name 10 people, are you going to name the friend of the neighbor who used to live down the street when you were in 2nd grade that once said 'hi' to you? No, of course not! But that example is a little obscure.
Let me use a different example *pulls out exhibit A2*
Lets say you are having a bad day - You woke up to realize you are late to work, you stub your toe on the way out the door, you run a red light, you left your specially made sack-lunch on the kitchen counter, your best friend who would normally make your day better is actually sick, a customer yells at you because they think the over-priced popcorn is over-priced, causing you to lose your temper and yell "Well DUH! oh course its expensive! You are at a movie theater!", which causes them to talk to your manager, who then shoots you
watch-your-back glares at you every time you see him until the end of the day. So that is the kind of day you are having.
Now, lets say that a friend you know goes to the movies and sees you. (assuming you are still working at the theater and were not just fired for before said comment) Lets say that they only say "Hi" then walk away. Now, your fellow co-worker notices you are obviously having a bad day and they do more than just say 'hi'. They actually take the time to sit down and listen to the sob-filled drama that is your life. lets say that after that they give you friendly words of advice and comfort. lets take this even farther and say they even gave you half of their cookie to make your day better.
The final scene in this long drawn out story is this: You go home that night and write a post on the blog that you totally love and care about. In your entry you write how your fellow co-worker totally just made your day. Basically, you sing their praises and let them know how much they mean to you. A day later, you check your email to see whats new. you find an email from your close friend that you met the day before. This is a very sad, long, drawn-out, sob story about how offended they were that they were not included in what you wrote about them.
What do you do then? Well obviously you look back on the day, and realize that the only reason you didn't include them was not because they are no longer your friend, but you didn't include them because they had little relevance to what you had written.
The point I'm trying to make is I'm sorry if I don't mention you in a post - its not your fault, its mine. or you can just say its your fault and save me from having to make up a lame excuse for why you had no relevance to the current topic.
Its like thanking the Easter Bunny for the Christmas presents you found under the tree. that in fact have nothing to do with either the Easter Bunny or Santa, but your kind loving family/friends that gave you brightly wrapped (empty) boxes that just happen to match the curtains and add a festive feeling to the palm-tree.
With this I bid a fond farewell to all of you loving readers that don't take offense when your name was not mentioned.
Random is my middle name right now at midnight. Seriously, something is wrong with me O.o